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constantly devastated by the world we lost due to aids

The battles that rose out of the AIDs epidemic were access to marriage and military service. When once the Queer community was focused on creating the best art and living lives worth telling stories about, the 1990’s brought on a new goal: How to best fit in.

As the brilliant Fran Bebowitz has said many times, the first people who died of AIDS were the interesting ones. The artists. There’s a reason that arts became Ghostbusters and Cats in the 1990s. Because all of the really talented artists were dying. The rule-breakers. The ones who weren’t afraid to shake things up. And the audience died with them.

“Now we don’t have any kind of discerning audience. When that audience died- and that audience died in five minutes. Literally people didn’t die faster in war. And it allowed of course, like the second, third, fourth tier to rise up to the front. Because of course, the first people who died of AIDS were the people who… I don’t know how top put this… got laid a lot. OK. Now imagine who didn’t get AIDS. That’s who was then lauded as like - the great artists.” - Fran Lebowitz

So many of the gays left alive once the Clinton Administration came into being were, to be frank, the boring ones. Gays who knew nobody and who nobody knew, and they rose to the top of the community and therefore their priorities rose to the top of the community as well. And what did they want? Apparently, they wanted to join the army and have big gay weddings.

General employment non-discrimination wasn’t all that important to them. Making sexuality and gender identity a protected class, along with sex, race, and religion, wasn’t that important to them. They wanted marriage and military. Because they were the good gays. Not the naughty gays who were sleeping around and dying of AIDS. Not the poor gays who couldn’t make political contributions.

They were the gays with families and commitment ceremonies and office jobs and houses. They were the good ones. The ones who would look fantastic and incredibily marketable when they were interviewed by CNN. They were the gays who straight people would look at and say to themselves: “Maybe they’re not so bad after all. I still don’t want my kid to be gay. But maybe it’s okay if Bob and Henry got married.”

The gay rights movement shifted from ‘Accept us for who we are’ to 'We’ll be whatever you want us to be if you accept us.’ And it’s kind of remained that way over the last thirty years.

We’ve been trained to be offended by queers who step too far out of the mainstream. Plenty, and I mean plenty, of gays online were on edge when Billy Porter started showing up to awards shows in dresses. Lots, and I mean lots, of gays were unnerved and worried when trans people started coming out of their own closets. Some going so far as to disavow the T from LGBT because they were worried people who don’t like trans people would lop in the gay men and women in with them. Who needs community when you’ve already got your house in the suburbs, right?

James Somerton, Why Bad Gays are Good

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brooo it was so fucked up at the club last night bro the dj was playing straight bangers like “babbling brook ft. deep woods” and “mourning dove remix” and everyone on the dance floor stood still completely at peace with and within themselves, all still trees in the envelope of the world. at some point in the night i sat and contemplated the beauty of all things it was sick as hell man

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yayyyyyy supplies for our next batch of sex worker care kits arrived ☺️ they get hygiene wipes, deodorizing wipes, first aid kit, lube, condoms, makeup remover wipes, throat spray and mace

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Let me know if anyone wants a list of Jewish fantasy novels

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  • The Wolf and the Woodsman by Ava Reid (adult, based on Hungarian Jewish history)
  • Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik (adult, based on Lithuanian Jewish history)
  • Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo (adult, urban fantasy)
  • The Wise and the Wicked by Rebecca Podos (YA, urban fantasy)
  • Burning Girls and Other Stories by Veronica Schanoes (adult, anthology)
  • A good amount of Alice Hoffman’s books
  • Same for Jane Yolen’s short stories and Briar Rose
  • The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker (adult, historical)
  • People of the Book edited by Rachel Swirsky and Sean Wallace (anthology)
  • Anything by Shira Glassman

Adding more!

  • The City Beautiful by Aden Polydoros (ya, historical urban fantasy about a series of murders in 1900s Chicago). Also read his sophomore novel Bone Weaver!
  • From Dust, a Flame by Rebecca Podos (ya, urban fantasy)
  • The Ghosts of Rose Hill by RM Romero (YA, ghost story told in verse)
  • When the Angels Left the Old Country by Sacha Lamb (ya, historical about angel and a demon coming to America)
  • Ravenfall by Kalyn Josephson (mg, urban fantasy murder mystery)
  • A Far Wilder Magic by Allison Saft (ya, romantic fantasy about a fox hunt)
  • The Way Back by Gavriel Salt (ya, historical portal fantasy)
  • The Girl with the Red Balloon by Katherine Locke (ya, historical time slip) and their stand alone, This Rebel Heart (ya, magical realism and historical)
  • Feverwake by Victoria Lee (ya, dystopian with magic)
  • Death’s Embrace by HL Moore (adult, sci-fi)

Oooohhh!!

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plussizedandrogyny:

plussizedandrogyny:

Hey i’m a fashion design student so i have tons and tons of pdfs and docs with basic sewing techniques, pattern how-tos, and resources for fabric and trims. I’ve compiled it all into a shareable folder for anyone who wants to look into sewing and making their own clothing. I’ll be adding to this folder whenever i come across new resources

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/16uhmMb8kE4P_vOSycr6XSa9zpmDijZSd?usp=sharing

Updated just now with new hand sewing resources (mainly buttonholes) and textbook pdfs on fashion history, fashion illustration, and thinking through designs!

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